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Okay, here's the scene. You spent hours putting together a new unit study that you will be teaching your kids
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Gathered all the materials, handpicked activities that they will love, and you are ready to go
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You wake up that morning, energized because you love teaching your kids and you can't wait to get started
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Your kids come downstairs, bright-eyed and eager to learn. The morning goes so smoothly
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Everyone gets along, stays on track with the lesson, and completes their work early
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Everything runs just as you plan and you couldn't be happier. Sound familiar? Yeah, this is definitely not a typical homeschool day for me. The truth is, most days the story couldn't be further from the truth. Rarely does anything go exactly as we plan it. And as much as I resolve to remain calm and collected during our homeschool day, sometimes I barely make it five minutes before I am tested. Trials will happen in our homeschooling and probably regularly. Balancing life and homeschooling, sibling relationship
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keeping homeschool records, dealing with toddlers, struggling learners, self-doubt. I could go on
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We experience it all. Homchooling isn't always fun, but we can keep our joy through even the trials
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If you ask a friend or look up support online, you'll get the standard answers for how to reset
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after a long homeschooling day or week. You hear take a break from school for a day or make sure you focus on self exercise spend time on a hobby zone out with a favorite show There nothing wrong with this advice They all certainly provide a temporary means of escape the chance to regroup
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and sometimes you need that until the next trial comes, or the next sibling fight breaks out
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or the next child refuses to do any more work that day. God can certainly work through the temporary
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fixes, but if we only fill our bucket with things from this world and our own efforts
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we will always be lacking when the next hard day comes. Instead, if we fix our eyes on Christ and
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draw on his love and strength, we'll realize a deeper joy that lasts, even through the hard days
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when we want to give up. It's easy to make the choice to be joyful when things are going our way
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It's a bit harder when the curriculum is failing us or the kids aren't getting along. One thing that
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I remind myself is that trials are simply opportunities meant for our good and God's glory
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Romans 5 3 through 5 says, not only so, but we always
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also glory in our sufferings because we know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance
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perseverance character, and character hope. And hope does not put us to shame because God's love
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has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. Don't we
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often tell the same things to our kids? Struggle is necessary for growth. Although we wish we could
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take the hard part of our kids' lives away, without them, they wouldn't learn. But we can always be
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with them and root for them. Our Heavenly Father promises to do the same for us. He will never leave us
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forsake us but he will allow us to struggle for everything not to be perfect and go our way for our own good and growth and to know him and love him more Because of this we can be joyful In fact First Thessalonians 516 tells us to be joyful always
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Note that it doesn't tell us to always be happy. Joy doesn't equal happiness
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Rather, it requires us to change our mindset and keep an eternal perspective on our circumstances
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Being joyful always requires us to take the opportunities God gives us to lean on him, learn what he wants us to learn
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grow. The other important thing to remember is that joy is a fruit of the spirit. So we increase in joy
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when we increase our connection to the vine. When we allow God to restore us, we will experience the joy that we
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can't find anywhere else. The more we fill ourselves with Christ and open ourselves to the Holy Spirit's guidance
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and help, the more fruitful we will be. So it's true that we will experience tough days as homeschool moms
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And as much as we cherish all of our moments with our kids, homeschooling will not always be enjoyable
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homeschooling is hard. But Jesus is the source of our joy, even in all our trials. We can always trust
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his plan and purpose. Our happiness and homeschooling will never be constant, but with the help of the
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Holy Spirit, our joy can shine as a result of the happiness we have in focusing on the goodness and
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promises of our Heavenly Father. Let me pray for us. Lord, you are amazing. I praise you and thank you
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for your gift of joy during the trials in my life. I know that you are always working for my good in your
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glory shaping me to reflect you more I sorry for the times I complain about small inconveniences and trials in our homeschool Forgive me for any bitterness or anger that I have turned to in these circumstances
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Work in me that this is not my automatic response to trials. You are gracious in giving me these opportunities to worship you, depend on you, and transform my heart
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You never promised homeschooling would be easy, but you promise you will always be with me
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Thank you for providing everything I need to be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing
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I pray that through the power of the Holy Spirit, I will consider all my trials as joy
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knowing that the testing of my faith produces perseverance, character, and hope
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May I keep my eyes on you and trust in your goodness. In Jesus' name I pray, amen
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Thank you so much for joining me this week for Week 11 of the Home School Prayer Challenge
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Make sure to check out the link in the description below to log in and grab your free printable prayer for the week
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So you can print it out and hang it up in your kitchen, room or wherever it will remind you to pray and encourage you. And I would love to hear from you in the
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comments. When do you find it the most challenging to be joyful always in your homeschooling
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How do you keep an eternal perspective during these trials? How can I pray for you this week
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Next week, we'll chat about trusting God with our finances and homeschooling. So make sure to
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subscribe and hit that notification bell so you don't miss out. I will see you next time